Reality shifting: How to manifest your goal with 100% certainty

What if you could get to a place of total certainty that your goals are already yours? In this episode, I dive into the power of reality shifting and why it transforms the way high achieving women in business create results.

Inside, I take you through:

• What reality shifting really is and how it changes the game for manifestation.
• The step by step process I use with clients to move them from doubt to certainty.
• How this method clears away mental blocks, barriers and old identities that keep you stuck.

Why this is the perfect combination of soulful manifestation and practical action so you can achieve goals with confidence and clarity.

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I appreciate you so much for being here.

Transcript

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Welcome to the Empowered Edupreneur Podcast. My name is Michelle Smit, and I'm an ex-teacher turned online business coach for Edupreneurs. The owner of Digiteach and a six-figure entrepreneur. I am in love with empowering educators just like you to create freedom filled online businesses and lives they love. If you are looking to uplevel your skills, your finances, your mindset, and change the trajectory of your life as an educator and business, then you are in the right place. Think of this podcast as your weekly dose of business and mindset development to help unlock the infinite potential within you. To play bigger with your life and go after your dreams. We are going to have so much fun together. So thank you so much for pushing play today. Now let's dive in. Hello. Hello. So good to have you here, and today I am talking to you about manifestation and creating your goals and creating everything you want with almost a hundred percent certainty. And not almost with a hundred percent certainty. So let's dive right into it. Now, I consider myself a very, very good manifester. I have been able to manifest everything I want, whether it's my dream cats, my two ragdoll cats that I've always wanted, whether it's my dream place to live where I now live in Portugal. I've manifested that this year, whether it's my dream work where I'm doing the work that I love. I manifested my business, I created it from nothing into a six figure business that is manifestation at its finest, and obviously just my dream husband. And I've got everything that I really, really desire and want at this moment. I have a manifestation list and I don't really have much on it, because I've just achieved everything that I deeply, deeply want for now at least. And so I have been naturally very good at manifestation and there's a lot of conflicting information out there on it. There's a lot of woo woo stuff and then there's a lot of straight, hardcore, masculine stuff. And I really do believe that it is this beautiful fine line between setting an intention and action those two things. And that without the strong intention and belief, you can't achieve it. And without the action, you can't achieve it. And so I really do see manifestation and achieving your goals as really using those two key things. You need to have a strong intention of what it is you want to create and bring into your world, and you need to have the belief that you're going to do it. That's really important and I'm talking about the real belief, like a deep subconscious knowing that this is going to happen and then you need to act on it. You need to literally go do the steps you need to take to make it happen. Here's a silly example, going and buying a loaf of bread. Now the first thing you need is an intention to go and buy the loaf of bread. Then you need to know that with certainty, you are going to go and buy that loaf of bread, there's no doubt in your mind you're going to go buy that loaf of bread. So you've got the intention to buy the loaf of bread. You've got a level of certainty that you just know you're going to go buy that loaf of bread. And then the last thing you need in order to actually buy the loaf of bread is the directions to get there. And you need to just go and walk and get that loaf of bread, and that's that action piece. Now, if you didn't have the intention to buy the loaf of bread, you're not going to go and buy it. So that's one piece. But if you don't have the directions and the steps and you don't actually go and walk to the shop to buy that loaf of bread. You're not going to manifest that loaf of bread, okay? It's going to just stay a goal or a dream. And so these are really key pieces to manifestation and to creating what it is you want in your life. You want to have all of this, and this is what I've practiced within my life and whenever I've wanted to manifest something, I've always had a very strong intention for it. I've always developed a great sense of belief that I'm going to achieve it and then I always map out a plan. I always chunk down. Because a lot of the things I've manifested have been insanely big things, like things that have taken me five years, seven years, like they, I've been working towards them for years. To get Dutch citizenship, it took me five years to get that, to get to Portugal. It took me about seven years to get that. And it's a big thing, like I had to do a zillion things and become a different person almost to get to this place. But I chunked it down. I literally created Asana Projects if anyone knows me. You know I love an Asana project. I take everything that I want and I set up Asana projects and I just execute them and I just take action like crazy. And that's why I have created everything I want, and that's how you will create everything you want too. So you're going to have to have the intention, you're going to have to have the belief of almost like certainty, and you're going to have to have the steps and the plan to get there. Now I am doing my certification in mind shifting at the moment. And this is a powerful modality that does so much. But essentially it rewires your subconscious brain. It dissolves old identities that are keeping you trapped. It dissolves limitations, limiting beliefs. And it empowers you to become the more limitless version of yourself, your true nature, essentially. So it just dissolves all the stories that we have attached in our mind, and it allows you to just be the limitless version of who you are. And I'm learning many different modalities. And in my last week's podcast I shared about identity shifting. And so that is something if you are interested in shifting on an identity level, which is the most foundational level to shift yourself in order to achieve a goal or change your life, you actually do need to dissolve old identities. Go and listen to that episode. It was 148. But that was identity shifting. So I've gone through problem shifting, which was episode 147. Then I went through identity shifting, which is 148. And today I am going through reality shifting. And reality shifting is a really powerful modality that I'm learning, which helps you develop a hundred percent certainty that you are going to achieve your goal. And this is really, really important because when you're wanting to manifest something and achieve something, if there is a lot of doubt in your mind, that doubt manifests as sabotage. So you will sabotage yourself and you won't do the thing you need to do in order to achieve the goal. And it will show up in ways like procrastinating avoiding things Perfectionism, you know, lots of stuff. It'll show up in ways where you're just like not doing the thing you need to be doing. It'll show up as fear. You'll be too scared to do the thing. So it shows up in many different ways and ultimately it'll block that thing coming to you. It'll block your ability to achieve the goal when there's a huge amount of doubt. Self-belief in you. Achieving the goal is very, very important when manifesting. And reality shifting is this tool that I use with my clients where I help you define your goal. So you need to define it and you need to be relatively specific with that goal, as with all manifestation. I always recommend being to a certain point specific, otherwise it, if it's too vague, it's like the universe doesn't even know what you're asking for. So relatively specific, defining the goal. We then define the duration and timeline of that goal. So when do you want to achieve the goal? And I take you through a process. Oh, and before that, before we go into the process, I ask you out of zero to a hundred percent how certain are you that you are going to achieve that goal and you're going to give me a percentage. So you might say 20%, 50%, 70%. However you feel it depends, you might be very confident in achieving the goal. You might be at 80% already, or you might be like, no, I just don't think this is possible for me. I am at 20. And I should just mention this before, it's really important that when we set our goals, that they need to be realistic. So if you are in business right now and you are making a thousand dollars a month and you want to be making a million dollars a month in the next three months. That's going to be unrealistic. It's not going to be attainable. Obviously we want to make sure you're stretching yourself, but you also have to be realistic. So we set a realistic goal. Something that is possible. It can be crazy and amazing and magical and so far out of your mind, but it still needs to be possible. Then after I've asked you to tell me how certain you are that you are going to achieve this goal. I'll then take you through the reality shifting process, which is a repetitive cyclical process where I ask you a bunch of questions and essentially your subconscious mind is what I'm accessing and you're feeding back to me everything your subconscious is telling me. And basically we go through the cycle and we go through the cycle. But the main thing of this cycle is you visualize achieving the thing. When you imagine something, your brain doesn't know that it's an imagination. It doesn't know what's real and what's fake. So when I ask you to imagine it and to feel it, it puts it into your body. You literally feel like you've achieved the thing, and then your body feels all the feelings that it would feel if you achieve the thing. So the joy and the magic and the excitement and the butterflies and all that good stuff, you actually feel it. So you're accessing that your subconscious is experiencing you having achieved this thing. And it's a magical thing. Because you put yourself in that space of it's coming to you, it's happening and your body doesn't know the difference. It almost tricks the brain to believe that it is happening, right. And then we go into a space of what are the things that will stop you from achieving it. And then i'm accessing your subconscious in this process, and basically you're feeding through to me all of your doubts, all of your insecurities, all of your beliefs, all of the things that you feel on a deep subconscious level that would stop you from achieving that goal. So say for example, you are making $10,000 a month and you want to make $50,000 a month, and that's your business goal and you want to get there within a year. You are going to have a lot of beliefs about that being impossible. Like this can be so much stuff that comes up. And through this process I'm going to extract all of that stuff. You're going to tell me all of that stuff, and it's going to be through your subconscious. So it's not your conscious brain talking, it's your subconscious. And that's the power of mind shifting, is we work only with the subconscious mind. And we start dissolving every belief, every doubt, every insecurity, every obstacle in your mind that is stopping you from achieving 50 K months. And we do it until there is literally no more doubt in your mind. And I will check this multiple times to make sure that there is no more doubt in your mind. And I will ask you at the end. On a scale of 0% to a hundred percent, with how much certainty do you believe you are going to achieve this goal of reaching 50 K months in your business within a year from now? And I will only stop this process until you tell me a hundred percent, and I'm not even joking. It is the most powerful goal setting manifestation tool I've ever seen. Because we're dissolving all of your insecurities, all of your doubts, all of the things that are subconsciously telling you that it's not possible. And we're dissolving it. It no longer is. And so the only thing that's part of your subconscious story is this is possible. Your entire perception of the goal can change through this process. So you could start this process and feel like this goal is just not possible and you can end this process and be like. I can do this. I'm certain I'm going to do this. And I want to get you to the point where, you know how I spoke about when you go buy a loaf of bread, you have this like certainty that you're just going to go buy that loaf of bread. It's not a big deal. You're not putting a lot of pressure on yourself. You're just going to go and buy that loaf of bread and you go and do it and it just happens, right? I want to get you to the point of feeling that energy with regards to your goal. So I want to remove the intense energy around it so you're not putting all this pressure on yourself, because that's another thing that happens as soon as someone sets a goal, they put a lot of pressure on themselves to achieve that goal, and it actually totally affects your ability to achieve it. It actually is damaging. When you want to go buy a loaf of bread, you don't put this huge amount of pressure on yourself to go buy it. You just go and buy it. So in this process, I take away all that charge. And all that intensity around the goal. So the goal doesn't dysregulate you, it doesn't feel like this intensely pressurized thing. It feels just like this neutral thing. My goal is to get you to a neutral place where it's like, I'm just going to go buy that loaf of bread. So those 50 K months is going to be the same kind of energy of that. Do you see what I'm saying? That's one major thing that we do, and then we remove all the doubt and all the stories and all the limitations that are running the show behind the scenes that will stop you or sabotage you from reaching that goal. Now, once we get to a point where you've told me that you have a hundred percent certainty of achieving the goal, we will then go into building out a plan of action where in detail. And either I do this with you or you do it yourself, and I instruct you to do it. But we plan out the entire plan of action for you to achieve that goal. So we look at it, we lay out each of the steps, we lay out the timelines of the steps, and we lay out the deadlines of the steps. And we chunk it down literally into piece by piece by piece. So that you have a plan of action, you walk away and you say, okay, I know exactly what I'm going to do to achieve that goal. And as you're going through this plan of action, what's commonly going to happen is that you're going to feel those insecurities and new doubts come up. So maybe things that we didn't work through in the session together will come up. And then we continue to do reality shifting on those new things that come up. So when the new insecurities come up and the doubts come up. In our sessions, we will go through it, we will dissolve it and it'll become like non-existent in your mind. Because I want to keep you at the energy of this is a hundred percent certainty that I'm going to achieve this goal, and I'm not putting a lot of pressure on it. It's as normal and neutral as me going and buying a loaf of bread. Now, if you come with that energy and you come with the intention, and it's an authentic goal to you, it is something you really want, that's the other thing. It has to be something you really want. It can't be something that someone else has told you that you should be doing. It needs to be deeply, deeply important to you. So you need to have the intention, you need to have a hundred percent certainty that you're going to do it, and then you need the action plan. And that action plan is the magic. It's the final thing that then you can go and execute. And because we've done the mind shifting session and we've dissolved all the limiting beliefs and all of that, you're not going to sabotage yourself as much. You're not going to feel resistance. You're just going to feel like free energy that you can go and do the steps. And you're going to just go and do the steps. And honestly, it's like taking woo woo with practicality. It is taking the science of manifestation and quantum leaping and stuff. And it's merging it with practical steps as well as the energy side of it. So it's really looking at it from all angles, and that's how I look at it. I'm not just woo woo energy, spiritual vibes. I'm very grounded. I'm very much on this planet earth. We're taking action, we're moving ourselves towards our goal. We're not just dreaming about it and sitting on our butt and visualizing it. We are literally going after it. And yeah, it's really just such a powerful modality that is going to change how I set up my business coaching sessions. And when my clients want to set up goals for their business, this is what we're going to work on. We're going to get you to a hundred percent certainty. We're going to get you neutral about it, and we're going to plan that whole action plan of you hitting that thing. And you're going to achieve that goal. I can tell you with a hundred percent certainty that you will get it. As long as you follow the steps and you keep doing the process, you will get there. And I can tell you that because it took me seven years to get to Portugal, so I know how long it takes to sometimes achieve something. But if you give up, that's when everything falls apart. If you don't. That's when the magic happens. So that is what I wanted to share with you. It is such an amazing modality. I would love to hear what you think about it. So if you want to send me an email, message on Instagram or on substack. Let me know what you think. Let me know if you're interested in mind shifting, as an established woman in business. If you are interested in doing mind shifting sessions to help dissolve your current blocks. Because we all have these invisible ceilings in these blocks that are stopping us from unlocking our next level in business. That is the work that I'm going to do with you, and it is absolutely magical and powerful and transformative. So just message me if you're interested and I hope this was fascinating to you as it is to me. And I'll chat to you again next week. Thank you so much for tuning into today's episode. If you love what you heard today, then be sure to share it with me by leaving a five star review so I can continue delivering these goodies. If you aren't already following me on social media, then come tune into some daily inspiration on Instagram by following @_digiteach_ or visiting my website at digiteach.biz. I appreciate you so much, and I can't wait to connect with you in the next episode. In the meantime, go create a business and life you love.